Narcissism in the workplace: A team and individual perspective

Narcissism in the Workplace

Confidence and ambition are valuable qualities in any workplace. But when they turn into extensive self-centeredness, lack of empathy, or constant need for admiration, teamwork suffers. This is where narcissistic traits become visible. For teams, it is important to understand how to manage them; for individuals, it is equally important to learn how to balance personal drive with collaboration.

What Narcissism Looks Like at Work and Its Impact on the Team

In a professional setting, narcissistic tendencies may show up as:

  • Taking credit for group achievements.
  • Ignoring or dismissing colleagues’ contributions.
  • Seeking constant recognition from managers or peers.
  • Reacting defensively to feedback

Of course, not every confident colleague is a “narcissist,” but repeated patterns can create tension in team environments.

Unchecked narcissistic behavior can lead to:

  • Reduced trust and psychological safety.
  • Escalation of conflicts.
  • Lower team morale and motivation.
  • Higher turnover, as strong contributors may leave.
Reacting defensively to feedback

Advice for Individuals with Narcissistic Traits

It is essential to recognize that individuals who are strongly self-oriented are not inherently “at fault” for this trait. It often develops as a response to early experiences or trauma (1). Therapy and self-reflection can help build healthier strategies for collaboration. If you recognize some of these tendencies in yourself, there are ways to manage them constructively:

  • Pause before speaking: ensure others have finished before sharing your view.
  • Acknowledge colleagues: highlight team contributions in meetings and emails.
  • Seek feedback proactively: ask, “How did my approach affect your work?”
  • Practice perspective-taking: ask yourself, “How will this decision affect the team?”
  • Channel ambition positively: use confidence to inspire and guide others, not to dominate them.
  • Notice your triggers: defensive reactions often come from insecurity; awareness helps you choose a calmer response.
  • Remember the bigger picture: striving to be “the best” at the expense of team performance is not reasonable in the long run.
  • Enjoy belonging to the group: try to value the feeling of being part of a team and think about how you can help each member feel safe and included.
  • Pay attention to small successes: notice the moments when you manage to act differently; every step toward healthier interaction matters.
Acknowledge colleagues

Narcissism in the workplace is not just an individual challenge; it is a team issue. Teams need strategies to protect collaboration, such as setting clear roles and boundaries, celebrating group success and collective efforts, encouraging empathy-building activities, involving leadership, and giving feedback on behaviors rather than personality.

With awareness and effort on both sides, confidence can become an asset that drives success for everyone.


Sources:

1. Wood, R. (2024). Narcissism: A Contemporary Introduction. 1st edition. Routledge.
DOI: https://doi.org/10.4324/9781032649535

2. Written with the support of AI
OpenAI. (2025). ChatGPT (Aug 25 version) [Large language model]. https://chat.openai.com/chat

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Tatjana Mändla

Tatjana Mändla

Psychologist and certified art therapist Siffi

Tatjana Mändla bridges psychology and business insight. With four years of experience at Siffi, she empowers adults to strengthen relationships, navigate challenges, and cultivate emotional resilience. Her approach combines therapeutic depth with a practical understanding of organizational dynamics, enabling individuals to find balance, clarity, and growth both at work and at home.